大慧報告

They have been together for 8 years, but recently they decided to break up, in fact, it was my friend to make this decision;however,after breaking up, she regreted and asked boy friend to be together again.
Because this guy insists that it is impossible to be together again, my friend is extremely sad as well as depressed.
This sad mood has deeply influenced her daily life, she cannot concentrate on the work, moreover, she cries all the time.
All i can do is always besides her and try to comfort her so that she doesn't have time to think too much.
As u might have already known, when u suffer this situation, of course, friends are important,but most of all, u need to depends on yourself.
I know that time will cure and change everything,but the thing is how much time she needs to recover?
Some people say it is good that you can experience real love, hate, and so on, after all, u will learn something and grow up.
nevertheless, I am wondering if we will be very very sad, maybe u r disappointed with love,is it really good?