Prima Donna

I thought I was gonna see something that I may be 不爽 because you said "以下是女人的心聲，男人看了若不爽，我也不付責任：Ｐ"

In fact, you are absolutely correct, not only asking a girl to go through the abortion is cruel, but also extremely cruel and unfair to a new life. However, I do partially agree with reason A, simply because I think if you can't even take your own responsibility to use a condom... how can you be responsible for a life?? Not too much to do with money, I think as long as you can provide your care to the kids, educate your kids with right attitude in life, I think they will be fine with or without being rich~

如果不用保險套
就叫他別做
叫他用手自己解決 = =

Roto~
well, I'm infamous for being a female chauvinist..lol
When i look back at my late grandfather's life, i admire his courage and tenacity for life so so very much!

he lived through WWII, japan colonization, KMT regime, adapted to Taiwan's change from argricultural society to industrial society. Yes!! he had survived it all WITH 5 sons and 3 daughters!!

so every time when i hear someone (particularly a man) saying "oh~i can't afford having family and kids coz i lack the money," i'd talk back by saying, "is our society now in more poverity and hardship than that of our grandfather's age? if our grandparents and parents have survived it all, you should also just stop giving excuses for your irresponsibility=P"

芒果~
是唷..不是用蘿蔔腿狠狠踹他的重要部位一腳, 讓他永遠牢牢記住這個教訓嗎XDDD

Wow, you must have a pretty big family then! But yeah, I think it all depends on whether or not you are willing to take responsibility.

麻辣ＸＸ宮節目不應該這樣的, 做了不良的示範...

有些議題私下講沒問題
但是在電視節目
真的很不恰當
應該讓年輕人瞭解是
亂食禁果的後遺症

Joe,
ya, it's a pretty big family. i even have neices who are older than me or same age as me, coz there's a big age difference in the same generation. it's cool and a lot of fun=D

responsibility can be such a difficult word for the "strawberry generation":O

ab123,
以前看兩代電力公司覺得還好, 但是漸漸的發覺一些大學生真的談吐狠沒內容, 就沒繼續看..接下來跟流行的其他脫口秀節目 也都覺得沒啥內涵..(我還是比較懷念歐普拉秀=x=)

chihchun,
節目裡好像有個女生是墮胎三次的
她本來只想說一次的, 結果節目製作為了效果, 要求她必須全部說出來o_O
我覺得節目製作真的很沒衛生
但是女生本身也有很大問題

>>ya, it's a pretty big family. i even have neices who are older than me or same age as me, coz there's a big age difference in the same generation. it's cool and a lot of fun=D

I do too, have rather big family. Your last name isn't Chen, is it???

>>responsibility can be such a difficult word for the "strawberry generation":O

I think it all depends, many of my friends are actually pretty responsible~

nope, I'm the Lee's family:O
so who knows! i might even be related to 唐太宗 according to the logic of KMT freak~XD

being responsible or not also has to do with how you're brought up in the family, the environment you're in, or sometimes even the friends you have, the ppl you're surrounded with;)

Yes, absolutely, you become the person you are depends on the friends you hang out with~ Very true~ but I felt I am often the one that's affecting the people around me~ or I am just too full of myself~ =P

peer pressure is very important among friends. it's great to hear that you bring positive influence on your friends!! i wish i have positive friends too:)

but still, don't be too full of yourselfXD

LOL! I will try not to be too full of myself~

^^!

很有趣的心聲
有一部份的想法和我差不多

先有在婚的話題
中午休息時,也曾和同事聊過
辦公室的婆婆媽媽們
也都沒辦法接受他們的女兒先有在婚
他們說會瘋掉~

我有個同事是一男一女
她說 她絕對無法接受自己的女兒被先上車後補票
但是如果他的兒子的女朋友發生這樣的事情 她就會接受(儘管心裡不能同意 但是還是得接受)
我覺得她是很無奈的, 但是我還是跟她說了: 同樣都是父母親的女兒, 同樣都是父母親的掌上明珠, 今天妳不希望自己的女兒被如何對待, 也請教育自己的兒子不要這樣對待其他人的女兒!!

This is exactly why I am afraid to have any daughter... I think I will worry sick ever since my daughter is born until the day I die... We simply can't change the fact that girls are more vulnerable and I know for sure all straight guys check out girls all the time... only if hormone can be stopped, or else girls will always be living in risks~

lol, you can totally read my mind!!
that's why i'm trying to get back to the invincible state i was in before i met any heartbreaking man..XD

i think it's unfair to say that all guys are bad, there must be good guys out there willing to take up responsibility to protect girls, and should know better that their girlfriend is also else's daughter. hum...but it's just so hard to meet a guy like this=(

That's kind of true, but I think whether or not a guy is a great guy really depends on the ruler you use on him~ (I am not saying you should lower your standard~XD)
There are many great guys, but normally great guys don't really know how to talk to girls(especially face to face) I think~ and that's also why great guys are usually invisible~ Haha~

omg... so does one get a great guy to get rid of his shy personalityXD?

I AM trying to lower my standard...my friends keep on saying i must be living in my granny's age for tooooo long!!

So I am trying to lower my standard, but taking time to accept lower standrad is another thing!! and that's what I'm trying to do now..QoQ

May I ask? What's your "Standard?" If you don't mind, try to be as specific as possible~ =)~
Personality, appearance, financial status, and etc.~

Joe,
I can smell blogs and blogs and blogs to write about~~XD
I'll see if I can squeeze something out by the end of the day. But I hope what I write won't offend guys and make myself sound like a man-eater..XDDDD

Hahaha, man-eater~ I won't judge~ XP~