2009年01月17日 23:40

Remember when


看著紅腫眼睛的你
顛覆了古云所謂的男兒有淚不輕彈

雖然你並非大剌剌的在我眼前飆淚
但我想像受到極大壓力
尋求完美卻又多愁善感如你
在心理諮商課程中吐露心事
必然有許多感觸
然後如排山倒海的傷感全部頃洩而出

沒有問你詳細的討論細節
希望可以尊重你的隱私

但我深知
從小到大你被父母嚴格要求
稍有錯誤即會遭到嚴厲懲罰
年輕時也曾對父母頗多抱怨
甚至不惜不回家抗議過多的干涉
雖然現在你對父母之前的作法前嫌盡釋
但深藏在生命底層的包袱並未完全卸下

你傳承原生家庭的教養法則
連我這做妻子的
也被你當成孩子管教
是啊
一向被你視為毫無邏輯章法
需要好好調教一番的我
不過是我為反對而反對的障眼法

近來
中年叛逆的我
愛看著你生氣的樣子
以滿足想捉弄你一番的過度正經
你從來不知道
我其實是故意的與你唱反調
藉以抵抗你欲掌控與扭轉我的力量

你從不知道
喜歡探索未知領域的我
卻不接受叨叨絮絮說教著那些已經倒背如流的道理
我像擁有著不定性的青春期個性
就是不耐煩長篇大論的老生常談

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鼓勵你有機會可以試著接受性靈修練的課程
練習柔軟的技巧
會是打開你憂煩僵局的契機吧

天生就習慣放鬆的我
對你來說卻是無法想像與親臨的境界
就像老師告訴你
今後要學會放鬆的技巧
才能放開一切有喜悅的心情

對啊
彈鋼琴畫畫唱歌
如果放鬆必有佳作
更何況是複雜的心靈
更需要卸下自我心防
包容萬物

老子的無為與莊子的逍遙
對你而言如無字天書
對我來說天經地義
就像精明幹練的計畫與執行
開疆闢土的決心與成果
是你貫常的表現
卻是我全然陌生的挑戰
這是彼此在性格上的差異
也是互相吸引的條件
可是經過多年的磨合
與歷經一場情變的考驗後
如今變成快要走向陌路的因素
怎不令你唏噓

於是
我可以想像
淚流滿面的你
正懊惱著
眼睜睜的
看著與你漸行漸遠的我
想不透我為何不願正視與了解
你仍愛我的初衷

回想下午你那雙紅腫的眼睛
卻含著淺淺溫柔笑意
矛盾的表情瞬間讓你從強者變弱
這也正是這麼多年
我受到委曲時的表情啊
原來
向來是弱者的我
也是在這樣的反覆煎熬中度過

現在
很少流淚經過不斷強化的自己
相對於你的情緒如此容易潰堤
又是何等的諷刺

角色的對調
會為我們的關係帶來什麼機緣
我只能抱著順其自然的態度

Remember when

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Remember when I was young and so were you
and time stood still and love was all we knew
You were the first, so was I
We made love and then you cried
Remember when

Remember when we vowed the vows
and walked the walk
Gave our hearts, made the start, it was hard
We lived and learned, life threw curves
There was joy, there was hurt
Remember when

Remember when old ones died and new were born
And life was changed, disassembled, rearranged
We came together, fell apart
And broke each other's hearts
Remember when

Remember when the sound of little feet
was the music
We danced to week to week
Brought back the love, we found trust
Vowed we'd never give it up
Remember when

Remember when thirty seemed so old
Now lookn' back it's just a steppin' stone
To where we are,
Where we've been
Said we'd do it all again
Remember when
Remember when we said when we turned gray
When the children grow up and move away
We won't be sad, we'll be glad
For all the life we've had
And we'll remember when
 
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    When the rain
    Is blowing in your face
    And the whole world
    Is on your case . . .

    點歌"Make You Feel My Love"給Non Non & Peter:
    Adele's cover
    http://hk.youtube.com/watch?v=NnpSn6b5Kys&feature=related
    Billy Joel's cover
    http://hk.youtube.com/watch?v=vDpxVoeT2wY

    david
    | 檢舉 | Posted by make you feel my love at 2009年01月18日 11:37
    Thanks , dear david .
    我們全家共享著你點的兩首歌rember when 與 Make You Feel My Love~~

    When the rain is blowing in your face
    And the whole world is on your case
    I would offer you a warm embrace
    To make you feel my love

    When evening shadows and the stars appear
    And there is no one there to dry your tears
    I could hold you for a million years
    To make you feel my love

    I know you haven't made your mind up yet
    But I would never do you wrong
    I've known it from the moment that we met
    No doubt in my mind where you belong

    I'd go hungry, I'd go black and blue
    I'd go crawling down the avenue
    There's nothing that I wouldn't do
    To make you feel my love

    The storms are raging on the rollin' sea
    And on the highway of regret
    The winds of change are blowing wild and free
    You ain't seen nothing like me yet

    I could make you happy, make your dreams come true
    Nothing that I wouldn't do
    Go to the ends of the earth for you

    我喜歡 Adele 的歌聲
    另有圖片版本
    http://tw.youtube.com/watch?v=nCBlFBOxRKo&feature=related
    | 檢舉 | Posted by Thanks to david at 2009年01月18日 13:35
    Time can bring you down
    Time can bend your knees
    Time can break your heart
    Have you begging please, begging please

    Tears in heaven Eric Clapton
    http://tw.youtube.com/watch?v=VRsJlAJvOSM&feature=related

    中譯
    http://www.tacocity.com.tw/abs1984/lyrics.htm
    | 檢舉 | Posted by Tears in heaven NON at 2009年01月18日 19:30
    Eric Clapton
    http://amind.pixnet.net/blog/post/14900436
    http://zh.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=%E5%9F%83%E9%87%8C%E5%85%8B%C2%B7%E5%85%8B%E8%8E%B1%E6%99%AE%E9%A1%BF&variant=zh-tw

    Wonderful Tonight

    http://tw.youtube.com/watch?v=F44BcGjIbAA

    It's late in the evening; she's wondering what clothes to wear.
    She puts on her make-up and brushes her long blonde hair.
    And then she asks me, "Do I look all right?"
    And I say, "Yes, you look wonderful tonight."

    We go to a party and everyone turns to see
    This beautiful lady that's walking around with me.
    And then she asks me, "Do you feel all right?"
    And I say, "Yes, I feel wonderful tonight."

    I feel wonderful because I see
    The love light in your eyes.
    And the wonder of it all
    Is that you just don't realize how much I love you.

    It's time to go home now and I've got an aching head,
    So I give her the car keys and she helps me to bed.
    And then I tell her, as I turn out the light,
    I say, "My darling, you were wonderful tonight.
    Oh my darling, you were wonderful tonight."
    | 檢舉 | Posted by Eric Clapton NON at 2009年01月18日 19:43
    Remember When
    這首歌聽來令人想哭呢!!

    non,妳有沒有看過一本書:關係花園(心靈工坊).
    它說關係的發展有五個階段:浪漫期/權力爭奪期/穩定期/承諾期/共同創造期.
    我希望自己在關係的花園裡,學習療癒自己內在最深沉的傷痛...也學會用對的方式與所愛的人相處!

    non,不知妳是否會笑我?現在的我,很喜歡男人的眼淚!即使不能安慰他!但知道自己能陪伴他走過~就讓我覺得自己是堅強的!!充滿著power的!!

    摘錄書中一段令人莞爾的對答--
    問:結婚的適當年齡是幾歲?
    答:八十四歲,因為你在那個年紀不再需要工作,可以整天在臥室裡彼此相愛.(八歲的卡洛琳)
    | 檢舉 | Posted by tpc to non at 2009年01月18日 20:01