天堂的恩怨情仇NON NON

.¸¸.·´¨`»*Everything happens for a good reason!*«´¨`·.¸¸.

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant
to be there...to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure
out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these
people may be but you lock eyes with them, you know that very moment
that they will affect your life in some profound way.

And sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible,
painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without
overcoming those obstacles you would never realize your potential,
strength, will power or heart.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means
of luck. Illness, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer
stupidity all occur to test limits of your soul.

Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere
safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet affect your life. The successes and downfalls that you
experience can create whom you are, and the bad experiences can be
learned from. In fact they are probably the most poignant and important ones.
If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because
they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of
being cautious to whom you open your heart.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you,
but also because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to
little things. Make every day count. Appreciate everything that you possibly
can, for you may never experience it again.

Talk to people whom you have never talked to before, and actually listen.
Let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high.
Hold you head up because you have every right to.

Tell yourself you are a great inpidual and believe in yourself, for if you
don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you.
Create you own life and then go out and live it.

看到妳的出現,一股暖流又從心中生出...
謝謝妳的"不棄嫌".

我一定有過年"燥鬱症"!正在努力按捺不要發作中...
每年,我都以為自己會瘋掉!但修煉的結果,身是逃不掉~心卻漸漸抽離了~想像這是老人家晚年的唯一樂趣,要怎麼瘋狂都隨他們吧!反正越想逃越跑不掉!

前幾天又證實婆婆得了乳癌!在她的親人們,漸漸都只剩下一張嘴之後,所有的一切都要我和外勞來擔待...上有老;下有小,麻煩事總是不間斷...青春期的11也三不五時找些麻煩.

和NON不同的是,我陪著老人家在修行!對於孩子們,只能寄予最深的祝福...希望他們在愛中成長、懂事,我已無心力再與之一起狂飆了!有人說,我們是孝順父母的最後一代,是被兒女遺棄的第一代.是不是有點傷感呢?!時代真的變了!看現在的老師難為就知道了.

這裡永遠都會是我的心靈的天堂~謝謝!

謝謝你的厚愛~~~~

這曲想必妳可體會

釵頭鳳─薛之謙

釵頭鳳
詞：亂世　曲：薛之謙　演唱:薛之謙

有人在兵荒馬亂的分離中　折半面銅鏡
飄泊經年又重圓如新
有人在馬嵬坡外的半夜時　留三尺白綾
秋風吹散她傾城的宿命

※有人在乾涸龜裂的池塘中　見鯉魚一對
　用口中唾沫讓彼此甦醒
　有人在芳草萋萋的長亭外　送情人遠行
　落日照著她化蝶的眼睛

＊我唱著釵頭鳳　看世間風月幾多重
　我打碎玉玲瓏　相見別離都太匆匆
　紅顏霓裳　未央宮中　舞出一點紅
　解遊園驚夢　落　鴻斷聲中繁華一場夢

Repeat　※,＊

我唱完釵頭鳳　歎多情自古遭戲弄
我折斷錦芙蓉　走過千年還兩空空
一城飛絮　幾度春風　長恨還無用
解遊龍戲鳳　我　幾杯愁緒　唱罷還是痛
一城飛絮　幾度春風　長恨還無用
解遊龍戲鳳　我　幾杯愁緒　唱罷還是痛

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NON NON :

你不是住桃園嗎?

對啊. 我住在桃園. 我今早去汐止 "出差"~~~~

~~~「折樹枝的故事」~~~~

李伯母含辛茹苦的撫養獨子長大，也為兒子娶了一房媳婦;但婆媳間不合，經常有口角發生，兒子一直是夾心餅。

一日婆婆被媳婦氣得中風，臥床，三餐必需由媳婦照顧;但經常有一頓沒一頓的，病情也逐漸惡化，大小便失禁。

媳婦照顧得不耐煩，有一天向先生說:今天你要做個決定，是要你媽?還是要我?如果要你媽，現在我馬上就走;如果要我，就把你媽送到山上，讓她自生自滅。

結果李先生選擇了太太。 一天兒子(李先生)就背了母親要上深山「棄親」，一面走著走著，李伯母就一面折著樹枝;兒子心想，妳都無法走路了還想折樹枝做記號回家。

李伯母沒理會一直折著樹枝。

走到天黑了，也到深山了，兒子就把母親放下準備讓母親自生自滅(放生)，母親還是在折樹枝。

兒子就說:妳再折也沒辦法回家。 母親就回答兒子說:兒呀!你背我上山到天黑，我就怕你找不到路回家，所以才沿路折樹枝做記號，好讓你放心回家。