November 12,2006
求得一個好伴侶?感得一位好伴侶?
November 6,2006
第六感
November 2,2006
女人價值何在
October 31,2006
對於全球暖化,我們該如何做呢
October 26,2006
{轉帖}一個學佛者的愛情婚姻觀
如果事情就到此為止,那也沒什麼。只是,女人在領導和同事的輿論壓力下身心交瘁,春節前想到男方那裡去休養幾天,可是就在這個時候,男方卻告訴她,自己馬上就要結婚了,婚禮正在緊張的籌辦過程中--可是新娘不是她。女人立刻懵了,她簡直不能明白眼前發生了什麼:她已經離了婚,而且懷了男人的孩子,可是現在他居然要跟別人結婚?!男人痛哭流涕,說自己是愛她的、跟別人結婚是非自願的,男人故作猶豫不決。離男人的婚禮只有三天的時候,她給我打來了電話,問我該怎麼辦。
聽了他的講述,我太息不已。想當年那個年輕純潔的女孩子,如今受到了這樣的身心重創,不禁深為惋惜。不學佛的人,只有告訴她認清形勢、不要再對那個男人抱有幻想、好好調養自己之外,也沒有什麼太多可說的了。
但是這件事卻勾起了我的思考。佛教徒也是人,也生活在這個社會上,一樣不得不面對各種婚戀問題和家庭問題。據我的耳聞目睹,遇到婚變和其它的家庭變故的時候,居士們處理成功的少,陷入困境中不能自撥的多,尤其是女居士。在處理問題的時候,很多人的心態、水平和表現,與沒有學佛的人沒有什麼兩樣。究其原因,首先是沒有從佛法的角度,對愛情、婚姻和家庭樹立起正見;其次是沒有把佛法真正地應用於生活實踐。
那麼什麼是愛情? ...繼續閱讀
October 20,2006
查命盤之心得
我的前任女友真的是一個很好的情人,看了她的命盤對照起她對我的照顧,真的很對!她對於感情的浪漫度真是超乎我的想像,常常願意花時間來製造浪漫讓以前的我驚奇。但是可惜的是在感情上不夠穩定,很容易三心二意,不曉得自己要的是什麼,也過於注重只要有個人陪在她身邊的感覺,根本不管身旁的人到底是誰。而且她幻想太多,理想太高,心思又很細膩,很容易就因別人一句無心的話而受傷。
...繼續閱讀October 19,2006
日常老和尚之法語(20)
You should observe two ways to go without defilement at the beginning: the first one is for other's sake, and the second one is not to stick to yourself, otherwise, you couldn't attach to your ideas.
...繼續閱讀日常老和尚之法語(19)
If your parents or elders say something wrong, you should explain tactfully to them with kind and pleasant countenance and you still have the spirit which is filial for them. ...繼續閱讀
October 17,2006
外表灼傷,內心增長
在還未出事前,可愛活潑又大方,是別人對她的第一印象。她的生命也極其順遂,從國小一直到大學,都是班上的模範生代表;學業成績也不差,常上台領獎,在她身上我看見了不可限量的光芒,但一場無名火卻讓這一切成了灰燼。 ...繼續閱讀
October 16,2006
日常老和尚之法語(18)
初學時就想要把正見立刻把握住是很困難的,但如果覺得把握不住正見就不去學、不去做,那就永遠沒有機會了。例如,小時候絕對不可能先弄清楚奶、飯是什麼再去吃,如果這樣是沒辦法長大的。
It's difficult to realize the correct cognition and views at the beginning of learning, but you don't have chance to understand them if you don't learn and practice because it's not easy to realize. For example, you couldn't grow up after knowing what is rice or milk and then chosed to eat when you were a child. ...繼續閱讀
October 15,2006
日常老和尚之法語(17)
The eager for taking refuge, as it were, someone was struck by a poisonous snake and he had to find medicine whcih can treat against venom to save his life. So you can try to fathom that you're suffering a fatal disease, and you will be eager for helping when you know someone can help you. ...繼續閱讀
October 14,2006
根本道場
日常老和尚之法語(16)
無始以來習氣的力量非常強大,就像我們坐在火車上,根本不覺得火車在動,住在地球上,絕對看不見地球在轉,雖然看不見事情的真相,但我們坐在火車上卻跟著火車動,住在地球上,卻跟著地球轉,我們隨著業流走而無可奈何,這就是當你想去努力皈依的時候,卻提不起來的原因,所以不以強大力量去思惟的話,不可能策動我們去受皈依戒。
The force of karmic impressions had been very powerful for a long time ago, as it were, we take a train and don't think the train is moving, what's more, we live on the earth and don't see the earth is rotating. Although we can't see the truth, we're still forced to follow the flow of karma, so it's a reason that we can't improve ourself when we want to take refuge hard. If we don't have a strong power to think about it, it can't inspire us to take refuge in behavioral discipline. ...繼續閱讀
October 12,2006
體悟
日常老和尚之法語(15)
透過佛法,心靈的能力是無限的,但世人發揮利用它,是非常有限!佛法的心靈無限是什麼?要充分發揮心靈的能力,德行是絕對重要的,用能力來輔助德行。
The power of spirit is unlimited by learning the Buddha Dharma, but it's limited for mundane people to use well! What is the infinite ability of spirit to Buddha Dharma? Moral conduct is very significant to elaborate the power of spirit fully, and then to assist moral conduct with your ability.
雖然走成佛之路會很苦,可是這個苦的時間有限,苦的內涵也有限;如果你怕苦而停在這裡,結果,苦的時間無限,苦的內涵也無比大。
However, it would be very painful to go on the enlightened way, but time and intension of sufferings are limited. If you are afraid of bitter and halt your steps, time and intension of sufferings will be immeasurable at the end.
...繼續閱讀日常老和尚之法語(14)
人們基於「離苦得樂」的本能欲求,加上教育的引導,為求高遠的成就,便會節制只知眼前的種種短視行為,生起向上、向善的動機。
People will be moderate in seeing something at present, then have the motivation of improving and being good basis on the appetence of departing from the sufferings and getting close to the happiness, and seeking for high achievements by the guidance of education.
...繼續閱讀October 10,2006
日常老和尚之法語(13)
Bodhisattva and Buddha told us some truths and ideas which are used before, and we'll achieve the hope of departing from sufferings and getting happiness if we listen to them ,learn it very hard, and do well according to this way.
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唉,問世間情為何物,直叫人生死相許
October 9,2006
日常老和尚之法語(13)
佛出世是站在出污泥而不染的蓮花上,如同惡劣的環境是我們最好的增長滋養,最髒的東西,是最肥沃的有機土。
When Buddha was born, he stood on a chaste lotus which survives in the dirty clay, as it were, an awful environment is the best thing to make us improve and nourish because the most dirty itemsare the most fertile organic dirt. ...繼續閱讀
可憐的女人啊
October 8,2006
日常老和尚之法語(12)
We have to observe the influence of this karma because the foundation of all righteousness and joy is to cognize correctly to karma. So it's totally wrong to observe annoyance, and it's right to observe the karma. ...繼續閱讀
史度比與柯雷門
終於放下了
昨晚又再見你,又讓你傷心了一次。當時我一直在想,為何我們原先甜蜜的感情竟會搞成如此田地,再看到你的房裡有著他的東西,並且你堅決地對我拒絕的神情態度,我知道這份情已經不再有挽回的餘地了。當你哭著說要把仍遺留在我心底的心取回時,我更加明白,你真的是想徹底脫離我,不願再受苦痛折磨了。 ...繼續閱讀
October 7,2006
出租Q & A
大學旁購買小套房,如何順利出租,並提高投報率?
■ 投訴:許先生/台北市
■ 解答:廖本勝/永慶房仲集團總經理
Q:我也想效法投資客在大學旁買小套房出租賺錢,但是學校周邊的出租量相當大,究竟該選擇什麼區位與產品,才能順利租出去,並獲得不錯的投資報酬率呢?
日常老和尚之法語(11)
△儒家基本思想--仁,主要的就是推己及人,我不要的「壞」事情不可以推給別人;我希求的「好」事情形,希望能澤及別人。
The basic theory of Confucian is benevolence. I can't throw the bad thing to others because the main idea is to feel for others, and I wish the good matter will be happened to others. ...繼續閱讀
October 5,2006
日常老和尚之法語(10)
We should have a right idea when we have the motivation to practice at first. Second, we have to concentrate on practicing by the direction of a correct way. If you can do this, you will get the nourishment. So matter which is good or bad depends on your motivation. Good motivation will produce a good karma and a bad karma will be produced by a bad motivation. ...繼續閱讀
October 4,2006
日常老和尚之法語(9)
To Buddha and all sentient beings, they have the same feature which hope to be happy and to depart from sufferings. However, Buddha got it! We're still in searching for happiness, even we have the same goal. The reason for Buddha's gain is that he can see the factualness in the mundanity very clearly. Why the normal people can't get it? The reason is confusion or we call "ignorance", so we're still in the reincarnation because of ignorance.
...繼續閱讀October 3,2006
日常老和尚之法語(8)
△得到正確認識後,秉持正念去做,千真萬確有效;有效之後,其他的相應情況都來了,真正達到不被煩惱所困的狀態,那就是「法」了。故修行難是難在得不到正確認識,以及得到了又不肯做,心裡先打退堂鼓。
It's true and available to insist on right notion to practice after knowing the correct knowledge. That will really attach to another associated situation and not to be annoyed by afflictions when it's getting work, and this is called "Dharma." It's hard to cultivate if you didn't learn a correct idea, or you aren't willing to perform it and give it up at the beginning.
...繼續閱讀October 2,2006
日常老和尚之法語(7)
△學佛過程當中,第一個要重視的是這個暇滿人身,這是無價之寶!孝經一開頭就告訴我們要珍惜人身--「不敢毀傷」,即不敢輕易的弄損它。
It's an invaluable treasure to have a completed body on the way to learn the Buddha Dharma. In the Piety Scripture, it told us to cherish our bodies at the very beginning-- daren't to hurt, as it were, daren't to make our bodies damaged. ...繼續閱讀
October 1,2006
讓愛自由
September 30,2006
日常老和尚之法語(6)
△一切由「業」決定,造業的主因是「惑」,起惑造業而招感苦果。果報現起時,內心所起的觀念、想法是與前世因地當時同樣的意樂,稱為「等流」──即是以前造業的習慣。要改變怎麼辦?那就不應造惡,應該造善。
Karma decides Everythjng, and the main cause to creat karma is "doubt ", so you attract to bitter retribution by starting to doubt and perform karma. You would think of concepts or thoughts are equal to you had the same intention in the prvious life when the retribution is coming, and it's so called "natural outcome." That is a custom when you act karma in the past. So how to correct this? You should do the good, not to do the evil. ...繼續閱讀
日常老和尚之法語(5)
△初進入佛門是需要信心,但如果只停在這個階段,弄得不好會變成迷信。因為解決問題需要真正的智慧。
You need confidence when you begin to learn the Buddha Dharma. But it would be supersitious if you only stay at this moment because it should have a real wisdom to solve problems. ...繼續閱讀
September 29,2006
日常老和尚之法語(4)
△學了以後要立志,也就是佛法所說的發菩提心,發了心以後要認真行持,在行持的過程中「過則勿憚改」。
After learning the Buddha Dharma, you must settle down the ambition, which means to produce aspiration for enlightenment and dig in making work, “not to be scare to mend when you make mistakes” on the way to practice. ...繼續閱讀
September 28,2006
日常老和尚之法語(3)
△教育是人類升沈的樞紐。
Education is the key point which can promote human beings' minds or not.
△真正的目標不在把事情做好,而是在做事的過程中提升自己。
The real goal is to promote yourself when you do some affairs, not to deal with them well. ...繼續閱讀
September 27,2006
September 25,2006
日常老和尚之法語(2)
We will construct a notion that it's not always right when everyone thinks it's right and that it's not always wrong when everyone thinks it's wrong before starting to learn the Buddha Dharma. Thus, we won't be hesitated about others' objection, mock and obstacle when we go on the enlighted way. ...繼續閱讀
失去
日常老和尚之法語(1)
△學佛除了要自己受用外,還要回饋社會。我們是凡夫,自然有煩惱,但學佛後,不要像世間人只想壓倒別人,而要學習容忍、淨化身心,這正是一種精神的提升。
You should return good to the society after you feel useful in your life when learning the Buddha Dharma. The torment would come to us because we are normal people, so it's a kind of spiritual promotion that we should learn how to be patient and purify our spiritual bodies and flesh, not to overpower the others , like mundane people, after learning the Buddha Dharma.
...繼續閱讀September 24,2006
省思雜然 & 祈願
每當我遇境不如意時,總想找個人吐露不快,那時的我急得似熱鍋螞蟻,非得逼著我身旁的友人聽我的牢騷滿腹才善罷甘休。但這一談便是數小時,期間我深緣在自己的苦裡,而枉顧他人感受,以致少了不少善友,就連女友也因此緣故而與我分道揚鑣,這使我開始陷入思考為何會落得如此田地。直到學得佛法才知曉,遇境並不是苦,而是讓自身提升的捷徑。另外,在宗教中,我尋得了一種既不會造成他人困擾,自己也能抒發情感的方法,那就是祈求!經由菩薩的加持,我更能抽離不理性,朝德行圓滿又稍稍跨進了一步。
我也很健忘。
暑假期間我發了個利益重生的弘願,當時的我在承接任何事情時都歡喜無比,如今再次回顧那時片段,再對照起近來我因失眠及感情問題不斷有惡的等起心,我忽然生起大懺悔,還在眾人面前邊觀賞邊猛啜泣,並問自己:「之前那個法喜充滿的我到哪去了?我所立下的承諾又有實踐了嗎?」腦中不斷蕩起這兩句文字,於是我到師父遺照前行跪拜禮,和他懺悔最近我的貪嗔痴,並發誓放下一切恨意,讓傷害我們的人得到解脫,也使自己能離苦得樂。說也奇怪,再次見到那傷我的舊情人,竟不再有恨,還能與她有說有笑。果然,得到上師的攝受,成效竟是如此顯著。
儘管我仍有其缺憾,但我堅信,只要我不斷省思當下的起心動念,並如法照著經論走,必定能成就無上菩提,也能跟隨著日常老和尚的腳步,為大眾謀取最純淨、最無上的究竟快樂!所以我希望我有能力給別人什麼,而非單純的取之於他人,願此志業能在餘生達成。
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September 23,2006
浮世繪終於刊了
September 22,2006
September 20,2006
大學生築夢計畫-20個夢想必修學分
September 17,2006
September 11,2006
【學佛心得】上師攝受,福慧增長
「只要你們願意,我很樂意陪你們走完最後一程。」 ──日常法師
這句話我在三年前第一次參加佛教團體的生命成長營時就曾聽聞過,但卻無多大感受,直到近兩個月,擔任戲劇演出的營隊義工行列才有深刻的體悟,並當場淚濕衣襟,憶起一段段法師們與大專生曾說過的有關日常老和尚的故事,他就是我的根本上師,一位德行圓滿又慈悲為懷的僧者。
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