http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html/ zh-tw Roodo Blog System All Rights Reserved 寶妹，看待生命輕鬆點 嘖嘖嘖，這句話塵襲就給錯了^_^ 寶妹我月亮在射手，是不可救藥的樂觀主義，還要我輕鬆點，那我不是漂浮在天空，估負了我的本命魔羯XD]]> http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html#comment-16005491 文章回應 Mon, 17 Mar 2008 18:14:06 +0800 http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html#comment-16001351 文章回應 Mon, 17 Mar 2008 09:23:52 +0800 http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html#comment-16001327 文章回應 Mon, 17 Mar 2008 09:20:08 +0800 http://www.a-fei.com/2008/03/blog-post_10.html 阿飛的觀點，顯然就跟塵襲有很大的不同。。。 誰說別人一定是個男的? 女人不能追求理想嗎?女人不能自由?不能覺得累了想要有個有家庭煮夫的家嗎? 在阿飛的這篇文章的回應中，有一位網友提到: 那女人的自信呢? 而我雖然也很不客氣的回答: 在地球上，有討論女人自信的餘地嗎?請問 但是，我仍舊相信，有所謂可以共伴到老的親密伴侶的存在，只要前提是彼此誠懇坦白的相互信任(親密伴侶不就是這世上最親信的人嗎?如果不是，不離不棄的立基何來?當然，我這個前提是ㄧ對一的男女關係) 互相溝通絕對是兩性(其實不只兩性，只要是親密關係)之間永遠的課題，但是，也要兩人對互相溝通有良性的、共頻道的接受與共識，而這與和解共生的道理是相同的。。。(大原則及共識確立後，溝通不過是促進更了解的手段，於是約會、言談甚至雙方的學識、背景、興趣、人生觀、甚至未來的理想，都是剛開始交往的兩性，就必須確立的原則與共識)。 這樣看來，寶妹似乎適合去相親結婚XD，但是"門當戶對"向來是寶妹認同的觀念，而這個門當戶對的條件，即我提到的學識、背景、興趣、人生觀、甚至未來的理想，而非單單存在於資本財富的多寡。 親密關係不見得要靠一紙婚約，一紙婚約卻也不見得保證親密關係 在阿飛的版上，我也留了mr.6的訊息，轉過來給大家參考: 又見３個新型交友網站，仍舊一大堆人找不到真愛 (Mr. 6) http://mr6.cc/?p=1479 沈殿霞去世，看弱勢男女的不平等人生 (Mr. 6) http://mr6.cc/?p=1410 當成塵襲這篇文章的延伸閱讀(這樣才達到寶妹我追求的 認真對人類成長的歷史注視的話, 成長的美果, 往往是合作思考的結果. 的境界^_^。。。真不好意思，又留了這麼多，多話了XD。。。)]]> http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html#comment-15980971 文章回應 Sat, 15 Mar 2008 05:32:48 +0800 http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html#comment-15973205 文章回應 Fri, 14 Mar 2008 05:00:32 +0800 http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html#comment-15971007 文章回應 Thu, 13 Mar 2008 22:30:39 +0800 http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html#comment-15969491 khoo369@yahoo.com.tw(妙喵) 文章回應 Thu, 13 Mar 2008 19:01:47 +0800 就像沒試過，怎知道台灣不能加入聯合國呢，如果連表達的機會與勇氣都不怒吼出來!! 這句話，自己看一看，突然覺得腦中出現"麻辣鮮師"的謝祖武，對著、指著教育部說： 我要當老師!! 所以是不是我們也可以指著聯合國總部說： UN for Taiwan ]]> http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html#comment-15965781 文章回應 Thu, 13 Mar 2008 05:57:16 +0800 用旁觀者的角度，問自己"到底要的是什麼?" 用旁觀者的角度→看過ㄧ個網友的blog，說他常常在忙碌、混亂的時候，想像自己靈魂出竅，從上方看著底下自己的實體。。。我也時常這樣做，然後【問自己"到底要的是什麼?"】我會加幾個字。。。問自己"到底初心要的是什麼?" "心不隨境轉，即生智慧"，是我十幾年來在工作闖蕩時陪伴自己支撐的人生觀之ㄧ 而我會質疑塵襲提到的"別人"這個觀點，我用兩個小故事來說明: ㄧ對父子騎驢，因為旁人的眼光，搞得父子不知道該不該或誰該騎驢 于右任先生的大鬍子，有人問他睡覺時把鬍子擺棉被外面還是擺棉被裡面，結果搞得他輾轉難眠 freddy的那首逆轉勝很熱血，今天發現這個↓影片更讓人落淚 http://www.hemidemi.com/bookmark/info/836698 張宇在星光大道對唱身騎白馬的參賽者說，會給滿分，是因為除了態度還有感情。。。(這是這支片子會讓我落淚的原因) 愛家愛溫暖被接納，是朝向理想世界不變的道理吧 就像沒試過，怎知道台灣不能加入聯合國呢，如果連表達的機會與勇氣都不怒吼出來!!]]> http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html#comment-15965469 文章回應 Thu, 13 Mar 2008 03:06:34 +0800 http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html#comment-15965427 khoo369@yahoo.com.tw(妙喵) 文章回應 Thu, 13 Mar 2008 02:52:33 +0800 http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html#comment-15965391 khoo369@yahoo.com.tw(妙喵) 文章回應 Thu, 13 Mar 2008 02:39:28 +0800 http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html#comment-15958337 文章回應 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std@ms20.url.com.tw(鄭松柏) 文章回應 Thu, 06 Mar 2008 06:40:26 +0800 http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/1116907.html ^^ 無論愛情...或者幸福.. 剛好的濃度是一杯專屬的特調! 適填。不膩]]> http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html#comment-15905927 文章回應 Wed, 05 Mar 2008 23:22:34 +0800 http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html http://blog.roodo.com/heavener/archives/5642913.html#comment-15905779 文章回應 Wed, 05 Mar 2008 23:10:41 +0800